Preview chapter from Ir-rev-rend: Christianity without the pretense, faith without the facade

Posted August 31, 2011

The following is a preview chapter from my book “Ir-rev-rend: Christianity without the pretense, faith without the facade” (release date September 28, 2011). If you would like to order a copy for your Kindle/iPad you can click HERE. For a hardcover copy you can click HERE.

Giveaway:  I’m giving away a copy of the book to 5 people who leave comments. (Winners will be announced Monday)

Enjoy!

 

Serendipity

The alarm went off at 4:00am. No one should be up at that hour. Almost no one was. Some people are happy and cheery when they first get up. Not me. Especially not at 4:00am.

I’d made a quick trip to Birmingham to be with my friend Chris Hodges the day after his father died. Now I had to be back in Charleston to celebrate my grandson’s birthday, and the only flight with a seat available was the first one of the day. Lucky me.

I packed quickly, slapped a hat on my head (if you can’t comb it, cap it), and hopped a ride to the airport. It’s not easy to get in and out of Charleston. You don’t go through our fair city to get to somewhere else. We are a destination point. Some Charlestonians would say that we are THE destination point. Many natives still believe that the Ashley, Cooper, and Wando rivers came together to form the Atlantic Ocean. Life begins and ends with Charleston. That’s great for civic pride, but it makes traveling somewhat difficult. There are very few direct flights out of Charleston. When the rapture occurs I’m confident that we will be routed thru Atlanta or Charlotte, depending on the severity of our sin and the sincerity of our repentance. Which one will serve as a sort of travel purgatory, you ask? I’d rather not say, in the fear that my Georgia brethren would be offended. Travel can be complicated, especially when nocturnal creatures (such as myself) have to take the early flight.

The final leg into Charleston is almost always done on an aircraft that looks more like a long silver piece of PVC pipe than an airplane. Even a person of my stature (5’8″ in heals and fully stretched for pictures) has to bend at the waist to keep from bumping your head on the ceiling once you enter the plane. The good news is that there are generally two seats on either side of the aisle, eliminating the dreaded center seat. The not as good of news is that the remaining seats are so tightly packed that you tend to share more intimate space with complete strangers than you really care too.

Travel too and from Charleston does improve the intensity of your prayer life. At least it does mine. I find myself praying more fervently about my potential seat mate than I did when I was single and praying for a spouse. My travel prayers basically go like this:

Prayer #1- “Lord, please let there be no one in the seat next to me.” I know it sounds selfish, but actually it’s not. The purpose is not so much my comfort as it is so that I can give myself more completely to God and his work in my life. With no one next to me there will be less distractions and more time to focus. (Okay, so it is a LITTLE selfish.) I was praying that prayer once when I spotted a young woman walking toward me. Arriving just before the door closed and the start of the fascinating instructional video, she was obviously the last one on the plane. By that time there were just two seats available and I was hoping that she would walk on past my row. As she melted into the seat next to me she exclaimed, “What an answer to prayer, you are my pastor!! I am so glad I’m sitting next to you. I’m afraid of flying so I waited till the last minute to board. I’ve been praying that God would give me a sign that everything would be okay, and here I am sitting by you!” I didn’t have the heart to tell her that her loving pastor, who was currently being used by God as a sign of his providence, was actually praying for an empty seat. I guess both prayers couldn’t be answered so God went with the less selfish one.

If prayer #1 – “Lord, please let there be no one in the seat next to me” goes unanswered, I move onto Prayer #2 – “If I have to sit by someone, make it someone small.” If you’ve traveled much, then you’ve probably prayed this prayer even though you would never include it in your Small Group Bible Study praise report time. “Praise God, there were no fat people next to me on the plane”. It just doesn’t sound right. But the truth is, no one wants to sit next to someone who flows over into the space you have purchased, especially not on a long trip. Honestly, this prayer reveals a hint of my own hypocrisy, in that I am currently overweight and was born with relatively broad shoulders, so I may very well be the object of other travelers prayers. I still pray it, none the less, because contrary to the opening line of Rick Warren’s best seller, “Purpose Driven Life”, in my own mind, most of the time it really is about me. Just keeping it real.

Prayer # 2 – “If I have to sit by someone, make it someone small” actually has a second part to it that goes something like this, “But don’t make them too small”. As in loud or unattached children. I remember being a reluctant baby sitter to a hyper energized three year old on a flight in the middle of the night, somewhere over the Indian Ocean. Her parents, whom I’d never met, were sleeping soundly in the seats next to me while I was the source of her nocturnal entertainment. My brother, who was seated across the aisle, would occasionally wake up and just laugh. I’ve never liked him much. I actually do like kids, I tell myself, just in small doses of my own choosing.

Prayer #3 – “Lord, please let them not be in need of constant conversation.” No conversation is awkward. Some conversation is good. Constant conversation to a borderline introvert can be draining (at least that’s how I justify this prayer in my mind).

Prayer #4 – “Lord, help me be a blessing to whoever I sit by.” That’s the prayer that I throw in so that I will feel better about myself. I’m not sure how sincere it is, but hey, this is my book and you’re probably secretly relating to what I’m talking about.

Here’s the deal, God usually answers Prayer #4 by bringing me the opposite of what I’m praying for in Prayers #1-3. In fact I’m pretty sure he ignores the first three like we ignore unhealthy requests from our kids as they are growing up. “Daddy, I’d like my ice cream before dinner this time.” He knows what we need, when we need it, and he knows what part we play in the big scheme of things. It’s easy to forget that’s it really isn’t about us, especially when you are tired, or uncomfortable, or just a little unclear about the mission he’s called us too everyday of our life.

I was all of the above on that early morning flight from Birmingham when it became obvious that the really big guy hunched over in the aisle was eying the seat next to mine.
“I’m in seat A”, he said as he rechecked the number on his ticket.

“That figures”, I thought as I struggled out of seat B and into the aisle so he could get past.

Honestly, all kinds of negative thoughts started to vie for a place in my mind. I’m not proud of it, it’s just the truth. I wasn’t thinking about him, what God may have wanted to do in his life through me, or about why our lives were aligned in that moment, or the fact that I am to live “missionally” and “incarnationally” every day of my life because of the sacrifice that Jesus made for me. I wasn’t thinking about the power and responsibility of the good news. I wasn’t thinking like the men in 2 Kings 7 who, because of their leprosy, were forced to beg for their food daily, and then one day found a stash of goods so large that they could never consume it in a lifetime. They were tempted to keep it to themselves until one of them came to his senses:

2 Kings 7:9a (NLT) Finally, they said to each other, “This is not right. This is wonderful news, and we aren’t sharing it with anyone!”

I was just thinking about me, and my comfort. I thought I knew what I needed, but the next 38 minutes proved to be highly instructional to this tired, grumpy, and out of alignment pastor. It was a divine appointment. And I almost missed it.

Prayers #1, 2, & 3 died quickly on the tarmac in Atlanta. There was someone sitting next to me. He was big. And he was definitely a talker. As he settled into his seat (and maybe one quarter of mine) he apologized for my discomfort and asked if I lived in Charleston.

“I do”, I replied. “How about you?”

“Oh no,” he responded. “I used to, but that was nearly thirty years ago now. I loved this place. I grew up here. I live in Alaska now, but it’s always good to get back for a visit.”

“Visiting family?”, I asked asked as he shifted around in the narrow seats, trying to get comfortable. When he moved, I moved also. Not because I wanted too, but out of necessity. We were a team now.

“Yeah. Cousins. My parents both died about two years ago, but I’ve got cousins I’ll be seeing”, came the response from my new dance partner. “What do you do and how long have you lived in Charleston?”

I measured my response.

“23 years…and I’m a pastor.”

“Really?” He asked. “What church?”

When I responded with “Seacoast”, he lit up like a thirteen year old girl at a Justin Beiber concert. “Then you know my cousin Sue.”

Seacoast is a fairly large church and I’m honestly not too good with names. Sometimes when people will ask, “Do you know _____, they go to your church?”, I’ll get a glazed look while the search engine in my brain tries to find a match. More often than not, I’ll nod politely and hope that they don’t ask for details, because I’m coming up blank. That wasn’t the case when my seat partner mentioned the name of his cousin. She and her husband had actually been apart of the group that started the church. They had been in a successful student ministry years earlier in our mother church, Northwood Assembly. Many of the leaders in that ministry had been a part of the founding of Seacoast. “John”, who was currently occupying both his seat and an increasing portion of mine, had been one of the leaders of that group.

That really got him going. He became as animated as a large man could in the cramped quarters of a flying toothpick. His voice picked up both volume and pace as he recalled what had obviously been one of the highlight seasons of his life. He teared up as he recalled the night he really dedicated his life to Christ, and the joy of following him with the abandonment that only the idealism of youth can truly appreciate. He asked me about various other people he’d known from those days. With each name came a story, and then a story on top of the story. I knew many of them and it was actually fun to listen to my enthusiastic new best friend recount some things that might be useful to me in the future.

“So, what took you away from Charleston?”, I asked.

“Well, originally it was school”, he replied. “I followed God’s call to a Bible College in Florida. My dad was a pastor of a small church for a while when we were growing up, and I so enjoyed my youth ministry experience, that that just seemed like the natural next step. I stayed there for two years and then transferred to another school in Tennessee for three years and then on to seminary for two more years.”

“So you’re a pastor now?”, I asked.

“Well, not exactly. At least not the way that you see the word ‘pastor’.”

I shifted around in my seat, trying to get comfortable because I sensed a story coming, I was actually somewhat intrigued.

“I’m a Chiropractor now and I see my patients as my congregation. I attend a local church on the weekend, but my work is my ministry. Everyday I go to my pulpit. See, everybody is hurting somewhere. Your job is to bring wholeness through the scriptures. I just get to their hearts through the adjustments I make on their bodies. I feel God’s hand in everything I do. I love my job.”

“So”, I asked, “how do you go from preparing for ministry to being a Chiropractor? I mean seven years is a long time.”

“It is a long time”, he responded. “But if you mean, do I feel like I wasted seven years and lots of money and never became a real pastor? Definitely not. It was preparation for ministry, and I’m in the ministry now. So I can see God’s hand in it all the way.”

“I can see what you mean”, I said somewhat apologetically. “But obviously you went into school thinking that there would be a “traditional” pastorate on the other end. Wasn’t it frustrating at times? Where did you make the switch?”

“It’s all about trusting God,” he said. Now I sensed that he was preaching a sermon to the “real” pastor, and I wasn’t offended. In fact, I was beginning to realize that maybe this was the reason that the two of us were squeezed into this small airplane for the next few minutes. God had something he wanted to say to me, and the only way he could get my attention was to seat belt me into a sardine can next to a rather large authentic “pastor”. “Fire away”, I thought. “I’m all ears.”

“Like I said, I felt a call of God on my life so I naturally thought of Bible College. With my dad being a pastor and being around some great role models in ministry it just seemed like the right thing to do. We prayed about it and decided to pursue ministry training.”

“When did you decide that pastoring a church wasn’t in the cards for you?”, I asked, still fascinated that a guy would invest seven years in ministry preparation without any apparent regrets.

“It was while I was in seminary”, he answered. “It just seemed like everything I tried was harder than it needed to be. It just wasn’t clicking for me.”

“Wasn’t that discouraging?”, I asked. “How did you handle it?”

“Discouraging?”, he stopped to think about his answer. “Yeah, I guess so at times. But how can you be that discouraged when you know you are where you’re supposed to be.”

“Interesting“, I thought. “Things are not working out, you’ve just invested seven years of your life in a dream that’s not happening, and you’re not discouraged, because you are confident you are where you’re supposed to be?”

“Tell me how you can be in the right place, but it’s not working out, and you’re not worried about it”, I asked.

“God’s in control. It’s his job to figure that stuff out. I guess my job is to keep my attitude right and just follow his lead.”

“Cool idea”, I thought. “Sounds like something Jesus would say (if he were here today, occupying an oversized body in a very small plane, sitting next to a whiny pastor).”

“So how’d you get into being a Chiropractor?”

“Like I said, things weren’t working out. Studies were hard and there were no jobs available when I graduated, so I decided to go into the Army until I figured it out.”

“The Army’s a great place to go while you’re trying to figure things out”, I thought. “You don’t have to worry much about what’s next. They’ve got plenty of people telling you what to do.”

“Shortly after I got in I started having headaches”, he said.

“The military will do that to you”, I added, helpfully.

“No, it’s not like that”, he said. “They were migraines. A friend said I ought to try seeing a Chiropractor and I did. The headaches went away and I found my calling.”

“All in one visit?”, I asked.

“Yeah, I guess you could say that”, he replied.

I’m thinking I should be a Chiropractor.

“After I got out of the Army I enrolled in school to become a Chiropractor”, he said, completing his thought.”

“So, how long did that take?”, I asked. Not that I’m thinking about it. I just wanted to know.

“Eight years,” he answered proudly.

“Eight years,” I repeated in disbelief. “So let me get this straight: In your pursuit of finding God’s calling on your life you went to Bible College, Seminary, three years in the Army, and then back to eight years of college? And you didn’t get discouraged along the way?”

“That’s right,” he said with an oversized grin on his face. “Oh, I had my days, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I met some great people, and the process is what made me what I am. I love my job. And I love my life. I couldn’t be happier. If that’s what it took, don’t you think it was worth it?”

I couldn’t argue with that. I noticed that he didn’t have a ring, so I asked him if he’d ever been married.

He paused and looked down for a few seconds before he answered. “Yes I was, to a wonderful woman. She died in a car wreck three years ago. I guess you could call me a single parent. We’ve got four teenagers living at home.”

Now that totally wrecked me.

I thought back to my selfish prayers just before he entered the plane. I thought about my reaction when it became obvious we were going to share a portion of my seat for 38 minutes. I thought about how I sometimes complain when the smallest things happen or my plans are delayed or I have to stand in one of life’s waiting lines for longer than I think I deserve. I thought about how far I am from where I need to be. I felt as if I’d been touched by an angel, and it made me want to be more like Jesus. In a strange way I felt hope. And I wanted to hear more.

“How have you…how have you managed?”, I asked as we started our descent into Charleston. “Loosing your wife and your parents, and raising four teenagers by yourself. I have so many questions. I can’t imagine.”

“It hasn’t been easy”, he replied. “The kids have missed their mother terribly at times. They are good kids and their faith in God is strong. It’s hard to explain, but we have experienced God’s grace in some really incredible ways.”

“In fact”, he continued, “I can see where those years of being forced to trust God when things didn’t go the way I thought they would was great preparation for what we’ve gone thru in the last three years. God was faithful then and he has been faithful now.”

There was something different about this guy. It wasn’t just the words he spoke. He was pouring out his life and his hopes in those words. They were alive to him, he was living in them. They weren’t a shallow mimicking of something he’d heard or a pollyanna, “everything is good”, type of misplaced naivety. There was a kind of authenticity to his faith that was at the same time simple and profound. Life had dealt him some serious setbacks, stuff that most of us would feel justified in questioning God about. But he didn’t let himself go that path. He simply trusted God, and his life was better for it.

As the wheels of the plane touched the ground he grabbed my hand and asked if I would pray for him. I agreed to, but I felt a little like John the Baptist when Jesus asked him to baptize him:

Matthew 3:14 (NLT) But John didn’t want to baptize him. “I am the one who needs to be baptized by you,” he said…

I prayed for continued grace, wisdom for his children, that his little congregation of patients would keep growing, and that he would always have a childlike awe when he saw God at work in his world.

When we finished he gave me his card and told me to look him up if I ever get to Alaska. “I’ll take you to some of the most beautiful places God ever created. We’ll go hunting, and fishing, and hiking. You’ll love it”, he said. “It’s beautiful but it can be unforgiving. You need somebody to show you the ropes. I’ll be your guide.”

What he didn’t know was that he already was. My guide, that is. Hopefully I’ll be a better traveler for it.

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237 Comments »

  1. Makes you think about what’s important in life especially as a Christ Follower. This is a great challenge to just be real as we interact with people we know and those we don’t’. Never know when God is going to put us in a place to minister or be ministered to. Great start, really enjoyed this chapter, can’t wait to read the entire book.

    Allen

    Comment by Allen Henderson — August 31, 2011 @ 3:10 pm

  2. I enjoyed your openness about your personal desires not to be uncomfortable, and I loved the story of a man depending so completely on God, and so little on self.

    Comment by robert williams — August 31, 2011 @ 3:16 pm

  3. I love a great story. I don’t know what the rest of your book is going to be about but I hope it continues to show who you are as an authentic, not-perfect, transparent pastor who recognizes his need for Christ. I hope we all pray that when we get selfish and a little whiny God puts someone in our life to give us perspective.

    Comment by Cyprian Temple — August 31, 2011 @ 3:21 pm

  4. Pastor Greg, incredible read, just like the chapter you read to us at All Staff.

    Just like you wanted, the book definately will make everyone laugh, cry, and know God more.

    Thanks for sharing it with us and for taking the time to write the book, it will have a great impact on people for years to come!

    Comment by Roy Jacques — August 31, 2011 @ 3:29 pm

  5. Greg, I love this piece being careful what you pray for, David and I just recently flew from Atlanta to Charleston and had spotted a family with two small very loud children and had muttered to one another I hope they are in the front since we are in the back and once we boarded the plane, sure enough, they were seated in the row right behind us. :)

    I thought it very ironic that you, too had started in youth ministry. And wow- to have served at Northwood Assembly together- God’s plan is always so much BIGGER than ours.

    Thank you for your words of encouragement to become a better traveler and remain more patient and to be ready for the lesson that is yet to come.

    So, on your Alaska trip -did he become your guide?

    PS> I did see some misspelled words-I assume that your editor will catch those.

    Greg, thanks for sharing

    Comment by Judy Morast-Morin — August 31, 2011 @ 3:32 pm

  6. Thank you for sharing that story. As one who is usually quick to throw out that “It may be hard, but after all it ain’t about you …..”, this is a great reminder that it is so easy to lose sight of the idea that God is in control of it all and instead of trying to figure out why, just trust Him and understand on the other side.

    Comment by brian fischer — August 31, 2011 @ 3:36 pm

  7. It’s not surprising that this chapter flows and resonates deeply at the same time. Pastor Greg, thanks for sharing your gift of entertaining and empowering people to take their next step with God. You do it from the stage and it obviously carries over into your writing.

    Comment by Mac Mood — August 31, 2011 @ 3:49 pm

  8. Love it! Of course I cried… again. Your writing style definitely draws out emotion and the book will surely help people become more like Christ. Thank you.

    Comment by Jenna Surratt — August 31, 2011 @ 4:03 pm

  9. I continue to be amazed how the Lord works in our lives and how he uses others to challenge and make us stop and reflect. You did it again…you allowed Him to speak in and through you…I must confess this was a timely serendipity moment…thanks for your words of encouragement. I look forward to reading the rest of the story.

    Comment by Michael Morris — August 31, 2011 @ 4:08 pm

  10. Yes, it is surely apparent that the gift the Father gave you to share the truth in love has carried over into the written word……what a blessing it will be for so many!! What I am most grateful for, I think, is that it will be yet another way for His people to learn that “Jesus” is not “religion”….He is alive and active and meets us right where we are with out condemnation. Christianity…being a Christ follower is not “religion”….they will read that is is real life, but doing life WITH a Savior!! Can’t wait to see the fruits!!

    Comment by Julie Hiott — August 31, 2011 @ 4:14 pm

  11. Great chapter…i laughed, cried, and learned. Just one question: I thought you said in Prayer #1 that the lady from our church sat next to you…but then in Prayer #4 the man sits next to you…I’m confused!!! I am just poking at you of course….what I took away was the message and the emotion of the story.

    Comment by Ann-Marie Rader — August 31, 2011 @ 4:41 pm

  12. Ann-Marie – They both sat next to me…on two different flights :-)

    Comment by Gregsur — August 31, 2011 @ 4:46 pm

  13. Thank you for keeping it real! Nothing like being the person who everyone on the plane is trying to avoid either! I recently flew by myself with my 2 year old and 4 month old. I was a weary traveler and was a bit discouraged from a few eye rolls. You gave us a great reminder that we never know what the person in the next seat, in the next car, behind us in line, might be going through. Great opportunities to pass along grace. Looking forward to reading more!

    Comment by Lee Anne Bellamy — August 31, 2011 @ 5:00 pm

  14. Wow, Pastor Greg! This is so great! I love it! I can not wait to read the entire chapter. I love the writing style. I love your honesty and I’m so continually encouraged by your desire to be authentic. I can hear your voice telling this story & I love that! What a beautiful story. So challenging in so many areas!

    Comment by Jess — August 31, 2011 @ 5:14 pm

  15. Wow! I had no idea what to expect from you in this book. I can’t wait to get my hands on the rest of it.

    Comment by Hank Osborne — August 31, 2011 @ 5:21 pm

  16. The 1st chapter is so funny I had to peel myself off the floor! I loved it but I knew I would because I hear you on Sunday and like that too. So far it seems to have all the elements I look for in a good read. Here’s my pitch…I think I deserve the book so…Prayer #1 is I feel I deserve it just because….Prayer #2 is I am a little fish in a big pond and little fish don’t often get to the first bite…. I would like to do that just once…Prayer #3 is
    ok maybe I don’t reallly deserve it but let’s get real – I want to be a winner!! Really I am putting in to upload on my kindle but I sure would like to give it to my family. Will you autograph it for me???

    Comment by suzanne owens — August 31, 2011 @ 5:26 pm

  17. I posted to the other link as well and was grateful I would have more room for today. Now I wish I just had enough room to tell you how grateful I am that your my pastor. I needed those laughs today.

    Comment by Charles Darren Lilly — August 31, 2011 @ 7:29 pm

  18. Thanks, Pastor.  I really enjoyed the details, sarcasim, mind struggle and transparency. I’m very visual and I was able to picture the story in my mind perfectly.
    I pictured your teammate as John Candy, but that’s because I watched Planes Trains and Automobiles the other day. But visually and emotionally you took me with you from start to finish. I found myself laughing out loud 3 or four times at the comments that you wrestle with and that you made sure stay in your head. Even the jab at your brother was well thrown and left me laughing hysterically!
    Your delivery is quiet and powerful at the same time and, I believe your readers will be able to relate. They may put themselves in the shoes of John Candy, who instead of questioning God about the hand of cards he’s been dealt, looks for God’s sovereignty in all parts of his life. Or, they may take my approach. I related more with you, a man who is constantly having a royal rumble inside his head about which thoughts should surface and come out, but who always strives to remain teachable and watchful, looking for what God is saying right now.

    Thanks for the sneak peak, it was very easy to read and follow and left me with something to take home.

    Brian

    Comment by Brian Crittenden — August 31, 2011 @ 9:09 pm

  19. Ps. Might I add you have such a giving heart pastor Greg, You paid for a whole plane seat and you still managed to tithe 10% of it :)

    Comment by Brian Crittenden — August 31, 2011 @ 9:24 pm

  20. WORTH THE WAIT! Even if the daughter-in laws wouldnt let me steal their copy. I cant wait to get my hands on the full thing. I laughed out loud and got a renewed passion for what He’s put my hands to. Thank you for writing a book!

    Comment by Katie Walters — August 31, 2011 @ 10:13 pm

  21. Riveting. Captivating. Challenging. I love it and am hooked. Can’t wait to get my copies! Thank you for sharing with us and for doing the work to get this to print. We love you being our Pastor.

    Comment by Debbie Hopper — August 31, 2011 @ 10:42 pm

  22. The WRITING STYLE works great for me. I feel like I’m being pulled along on a trip: kind of scared, don’t know where we’re going, but don’t want to miss it. The HUMOR, especially the self-deprecating “I’m a selfish jerk on the inside” stuff, actually reminds me of some cop/PI novels I’ve really enjoyed. The APPROACH may be the best part: a real human being, in the disguise of a reverend, experiencing the life of a real human being…and not lying about it. The STORY about the guy on the plane reminds me…about 25 years ago I started learning that no matter what you’re going through, you don’t have to look very far to find someone facing a bigger challenge than you are. Really looking forward to the rest of the story (stories).

    Comment by Doug — August 31, 2011 @ 11:03 pm

  23. Great chapter. God always knows what we need and when we need it.

    Comment by Bill McGrew — September 1, 2011 @ 6:27 am

  24. In the first chapter you really nail how Charlestonians feel and view the Holy City.

    Comment by Fred Johnson — September 1, 2011 @ 7:06 am

  25. This really is great. Awesome story. I’m looking forward to reading the rest!

    Comment by Taylor Knock — September 1, 2011 @ 7:54 am

  26. I’m hooked. The best part about a well written book is the visual I get in my head. I can see the plane and hear the conversation as if I were seated behind you on plane.

    Comment by John — September 1, 2011 @ 9:25 am

  27. You’ve posted just enough of your book to ascertain that I know it’s a MUST READ! I have always appreciated the way you share the Word with your great sense of humor that draws in us Christians. And, more importantly, the lost. Can’t wait to get a copy!

    Comment by Janet Coleman — September 1, 2011 @ 9:32 am

  28. Traveling all the time too, I sooo identify with what you are saying… CLT and ATL every week, as you say, in purgatory. LOL!

    It is so amazing some of the conversations you get dragged into, life accounts, and how God can work through them, even when you didn’t really want to get involved and just hunker down and hide for the ride.

    I love your “average guy” down-to-earth style of connecting with people, while being humorous, and yet still sheparding and pastoring effectively. It is received as more real, more honest, and more meaningful than someone preaching from the high altar.

    We love having you Greg as our pastor. I hear your voice in your book, and that is good because it reflects the true you. May God bless your message, and HIS message, with your book!
    Jim

    Comment by Jim Miller — September 1, 2011 @ 9:33 am

  29. i can’t wait to read the rest of this!

    Comment by Brandi Collette — September 1, 2011 @ 9:33 am

  30. Thanks for the quick glimpse into your book! I have a feeling this book is going to be a powerful read! Very much looking forward to reading more!!

    Comment by Sarah Fontenot — September 1, 2011 @ 9:33 am

  31. I absolutely am jumping to get to September 28th! I am ecstatic! Thank you for posting this wonderful glimpse into both your life and the book. What an amazing testimony. Looking at this has given me renewed hope and a reminder that God’s path is our way so long as we stick to the direction and plans he has for our lives.

    I am so proud to be a member of Seacoast! You and the wonderful staff have truly changed my life by teaching me about the AMAZING GOD WHO LOVES ME!

    Comment by Jodi Lynn Hall — September 1, 2011 @ 9:38 am

  32. Well done. I’m looking forward to reading the rest of the book. You have come through this chapter just as you present yourself at church; humble, wise, real, and with a great sense of humor…just as I see Jesus. Thank you for being obedient and writing this.

    Comment by Bill Gadol — September 1, 2011 @ 9:38 am

  33. I love it! And I think I’ve fallen in love with “John”! ;) I started thinking I might have known him, but the guy I was thinking of was already a chiropractor before he came to Florida Bible College.

    I love the story and can’t wait to read the book! But I’ll admit, I’m a little bit obsessive about spelling and would love to speak with your editor . . .

    Comment by Sue — September 1, 2011 @ 9:40 am

  34. This is why I love you as a Pastor!!! You not only live your messages, but you relay your experiences in such a way that we can all share in them. I can’t wait to read more!! This is one book that I’ll gladly share with friends, but I’ll keep a copy for myself!
    Thank you Greg for making it Real!

    Comment by Susan Jones — September 1, 2011 @ 9:41 am

  35. Guaoo… Este capitulo del libro esta muy interesando, se que todo el libro sera de mucha bendicion. Espero poder ganarme una de las 5 copias de su libro.

    Comment by Alonso Montenegro — September 1, 2011 @ 9:46 am

  36. Pastor, loved your honesty in the writing. Very clear and heartfelt.

    I also enjoyed hearing your voice through the words. It is very narrative and that makes for an enjoyable read, but also gives the reader a sense of “knowing” you.

    Noticed a few spelling and punctuation mistakes. Sorry :) Been a teacher for 10 years. Can’t help it. ;)

    I am looking forward to reading more and then sharing it with others. It’s not just words you are writing. It’s truth, humor, love, Christ.

    Thank you for sharing!

    Comment by Erin T — September 1, 2011 @ 9:49 am

  37. Great book! We can all relate to what you are saying. We all are selfish at times. God has a real way of opening our eyes. You mis-spelled the word heel/heal talking about your height. Think your book will be a hit.

    Comment by d. sparks — September 1, 2011 @ 9:56 am

  38. I love your transparency and story telling. I also very much enjoyed the humor. But most of all I love the truth and now I can’t wait to read it!

    Comment by Abby — September 1, 2011 @ 9:56 am

  39. Crackin me up! Can’t wait to read the rest. You have such a craft in making a simple lesson in faith or life make you laugh and think about your own life in such an easy way. Kudos to an amazing leader and man of God!

    Comment by abbie kowalke — September 1, 2011 @ 9:56 am

  40. Can’t wait to read the rest of the book! Love how God takes unexpected moments to teach us lessons that will forever shape our lives!

    Comment by Leah ferraro — September 1, 2011 @ 10:01 am

  41. Wonderful 1st chapter. Looking forward to the rest of the book. You write very well and amazing what God puts in our lives when we least expect it. Thank you.

    Comment by Marcy Kanapaux — September 1, 2011 @ 10:11 am

  42. Great storytelling! I am really looking forward to the book now! Wonderful openness and candor. I really wish God had not called us away from South Carolina.

    Comment by Jim Bedsole — September 1, 2011 @ 10:12 am

  43. I wasn’t sure at first, as I was trying to follow your story and wondering where the young woman at first mention went. But as I read on I became ingrossed in your conversation with your seatmate. I was encouraged and touched by your honesty. I would like to read the whole book and have a precious friend I would like to send a copy to. I’ve been trying to be encouraging to her as she was to me in some difficult times. So glad you gave us the chance to preview it today. God bless you. Your candor and sincerity have always made it seem you are more than our pastor, you are a friend. That’s it, you share with us openly as a friend not someone up in a pulpit preaching at us. Thank you for that. Keep up the good work and may we all in the Seacoast congregation see ourselves as ministers to those we touch daily. May the Gospel continue to reach out! Loved it :)

    Comment by Aimee Rawlinson Lehman — September 1, 2011 @ 10:13 am

  44. I too saw a couple of typos (heels, not heals and losing, not loosing). Hope it’s still being edited. But still a terrific story with an awesome message.

    Comment by Jim Bedsole — September 1, 2011 @ 10:14 am

  45. I wish I had your gift of expression so that I could effectively convey what I think of your writing and your story-telling ability! What a great story-teller! You have a way of sharing your experiences and knowledge that is engaging and funny and human and I walk away from your sermons, and this excerpt from your book, feeling rewarded for having taken the time to learn, from you, about God and Jesus. It’s hard to explain, but I feel a sense of relief in your honesty. I was raised in the catholic church and the hierarchy always made me feel inferior, like I could never measure up…but the way you share your personal thoughts and experiences really levels the playing field, so to speak, and it motivates me to stay on course. Congratulations on the completion of your first book, and I am most confident that it won’t be your last. P.S. I like your brother, his laughter was justified. :-)

    Comment by Tara — September 1, 2011 @ 10:14 am

  46. I wasn’t sure at first, as I was trying to follow your story and wondering where the young woman at first mention went. But as I read on I became ingrossed in your conversation with your seatmate. I was encouraged and touched by your honesty. I would like to read the whole book and have a precious friend I would like to send a copy to. I’ve been trying to be encouraging to her as she was to me in some difficult times. So glad you gave us the chance to preview it today. God bless you. Your candor and sincerity have always made it seem you are more than our pastor, you are a friend. That’s it, you share with us openly as a friend not someone up in a pulpit preaching at us. Thank you for that. Keep up the good work and may we all in the Seacoast congregation see ourselves as ministers to those we touch daily. May the Gospel continue to reach out!

    Comment by Aimee Rawlinson Lehman — September 1, 2011 @ 10:15 am

  47. Can’t wait to read the book! thank you for allowing God to speak to me through this brief chapter. so oftern we allow the demands of the day/schedules to overshadow the call of the divine! this hit home for me inthat in the midst of what i percieve as trials, God is mold us! exciting stuff!

    Comment by jonica suver — September 1, 2011 @ 10:16 am

  48. Can’t wait to read the whole thing! Look very well written and has a message we can really get something from and apply.
    Thanks for being our pastor!

    Comment by Christy — September 1, 2011 @ 10:17 am

  49. So glad you gave us the chance to preview it today. God bless you. Your candor and sincerity have always made it seem you are more than our pastor, you are a friend. That’s it, you share with us openly as a friend not someone up in a pulpit preaching at us. Thank you for that. Keep up the good work! Loved it!

    Comment by Aimee Rawlinson Lehman — September 1, 2011 @ 10:18 am

  50. Really enjoyed reading this excerpt and I’m sure I’ll devour the book too. Your style of writing makes me laugh and I like the self deprecation as well. I try to not take myself too seriously and highlight my flaws when necessary, I have so much to continue to work on. Only God can deliver the results in creating a better me.

    Looking forward to the book.

    Comment by Rick Case — September 1, 2011 @ 10:20 am

  51. oops, didn’t know I posted several times! So sorry! I didn’t know it went through!

    Comment by Aimee Rawlinson Lehman — September 1, 2011 @ 10:21 am

  52. Incredible chapter! Can’t wait for the entire book! Being blessed by each sermon and now this book!

    Comment by Zach Williams — September 1, 2011 @ 10:29 am

  53. Laughing out loud, loving it, learning! Thanks for this excerpt, Pastor Greg! I would love to be a winner! A book like this can help in reaching that goal! The race isn’t all ahead of us; it is NOW! Thank you!

    Comment by Yogi b. — September 1, 2011 @ 10:33 am

  54. AWESOME, I want more! Cannot wait. I even felt God telling me something thru you thru “John”. I love that you are my Pastor!!!

    Comment by Tammy Frankenfield — September 1, 2011 @ 10:34 am

  55. Your seat-mate was a guide for me, too. Love the chapter, can’t wait for the book. This will be the first of yours that I will read. Looking forward to the release date – might be the first one I load on my new iPad!

    Comment by Cynthia Moore — September 1, 2011 @ 10:38 am

  56. I am so grateful that I took the time to read this just now. God is so good! The words you wrote are alive with reality, laughter, and tears of knowing an innate truth of the One who created us. Thank you for sharing this! Now to find a tissue!

    Comment by Kim Graham — September 1, 2011 @ 10:44 am

  57. Pastor Greg,

    What a great, real and authentic look at not only your journey of faith, but also things that all believers have struggled with. I always enjoy your humor and fun look at topics that some would say are difficult and tough. I look forward to reading the rest of the book.

    Comment by Matt Blair — September 1, 2011 @ 10:44 am

  58. Greg,
    Loved the chapter. Can’t wait to read the whole book. I saw so much of myself in your story. So many times, I ignorantly flow along in my self-righteousness, thinking I am connected to the knowledge of God, only to have God humble me by pairing me up with authentic faith-filled people. Whether I win a book or not, I am getting a copy to share with all my Highlands College family. I am a 4th semester HC guy and will use this as a tool to disciple my assigned group. Just like you felt, I have several in my group that need to be baptizing me! Love you man!

    Joey

    Comment by Joey Brasher — September 1, 2011 @ 11:01 am

  59. God is in control and this helps to reinforce that fact. Your insight and openness lets me see where God is wanting to work in my life that I am resisting. As in your sermons you have the opening and I am looking forward to where the rest of this sermon is going. Thanks Greg.

    Comment by Bob Bucholtz — September 1, 2011 @ 11:15 am

  60. I wasn’t planning on this chapter speaking to me the way it did…thank you for making this chapter available to be read. Looks like I’ll be buying the book!

    Comment by Stephanie — September 1, 2011 @ 11:16 am

  61. Hey, just wanted to let you know the word heels is mis-spelled when you describe your height as: “5’8″ in heals”. I can be you editor in waiting:)

    Comment by Linsey Grady — September 1, 2011 @ 11:23 am

  62. Hey, just wanted to let you know the word heels is mis-spelled when you describe your height as: “5’8″ in heals”. I can be you editor in waiting:)I would also remove the word “of” in “The not as good of news…” following sentence.

    Comment by Linsey Grady — September 1, 2011 @ 11:28 am

  63. I HAVE to have a copy! Loved what I read!!! My noOk got stolen so I will need a hard copy;)

    Comment by Bonnie ferrell — September 1, 2011 @ 11:28 am

  64. Sorry one more…I notice you use the word “too” instead of the proper “to” several times. “Too” actually means “also”. Just lookin out for my favorite pastor! Much love, and great book so far!

    Comment by Linsey Grady — September 1, 2011 @ 11:36 am

  65. Awesome! Would love a copy. Can’t wait to read it!

    Comment by Parker VB — September 1, 2011 @ 11:41 am

  66. Hey Pastor Greg! Great excerpt…I am so looking forward to reading Ir-rev-rend! This chapter hit home for me – I greatly identify with your flight-mate; I, too, am in “marketplace ministry”. I’m seeing more and more everyday that WE are the church and we can be found everywhere…

    Blessings to you and your book!

    Always praying for you!

    Comment by LaVondilyn J. Watson — September 1, 2011 @ 11:48 am

  67. Pastor Greg, thank you so much for your authenticity. I want to meet this guy! This definitely challenged me to not be so quick to complain and to remember that God has a way of working that is beyond what I might ask or imagine.

    Chris

    Comment by Chris Russo — September 1, 2011 @ 12:07 pm

  68. Love it! Can’t wait for more. True transparency and humility that I have come to love and expect from my senior pastor.

    Comment by Joey Svendsen — September 1, 2011 @ 12:12 pm

  69. My husband flies almost weekly and I know the “empty seat” prayer! When I fly, I have to admit, my prayer has a section about “no smelly people PLEASE”. I’m so glad I’m lucky enough to attend Mt P Seacoast because while reading this I heard you telling me the story. I can’t wait to read the entire book! Oh… and thanks for the tears!

    Comment by Laura Sargent — September 1, 2011 @ 12:13 pm

  70. I love/hate God’s irony when we think we’ve got all the answers to minister to others and someone unexpected comes along and ministers to, humbles, and teaches us.

    Comment by Dawn Kelley — September 1, 2011 @ 12:18 pm

  71. Pastor Greg! I loved the preview and I can’t wait to get my hands on the book. You writing style is refreshingly raw, humble, and easy to relate to. I’ve often caught myself making the same prayers on planes, so it’s both encouraging and challenging to hear your perspective on it! I’m looking forward to reading the whole thing!

    Comment by Addison — September 1, 2011 @ 12:18 pm

  72. Greg,

    Just read the excerpt, and I loved it. I’ve spent the last 20 years of my life in youth ministry and I anticipate years to come.

    I think I’ve learned more about God’s grace and love for His people thru my ignorance and His wake-up calls than thru any “ministry” that I had planned or accomplished.

    My biggest curveball was March of 2010 when, at 41, I was diagnosed with cancer. The lesson of entrusting all I am into the hand of the One who holds everything is priceless and breathtaking. Looking forward to reading more your story….

    Comment by Jim Chamberlin — September 1, 2011 @ 12:40 pm

  73. Pastor Greg that was absolutely fabtastic! I am looking forward to reading your book. Thank God for unanswered prayers! And do get to Alaska if you haven’t. Its beautiful. I think you should go and check it out for a new campus. Especially in Anchorage! Blessings to you and everyone you touch through your book.

    Comment by Jennifer Justice Osteen — September 1, 2011 @ 12:46 pm

  74. Love it! Can’t wait to read the rest. You have always been such a great storyteller. :)

    Comment by Sandy Dean — September 1, 2011 @ 1:18 pm

  75. This is why I go to Seacoast. And this is why I love Pastor Greg. He is honest, says what many of us are feeling. And he makes me laugh, often and sometimes out loud. And finally, he brings it all together with a deeper meaning that gives you plenty to think about and learn from. But maybe most of all — to borrow from an old friend — he’s human, like so many of us are.

    Comment by Kristy — September 1, 2011 @ 1:25 pm

  76. Dear Greg, I really did not need to read to comment,because I know you heart, I expected the book to be exactly what it was, Excellant! We are real excited to read it over here in Crete. The home church will be ordering I’m sure! Thanks for always being REAL! love you and Seacoast Leigh & Chuck

    Comment by Leigh jackson — September 1, 2011 @ 1:37 pm

  77. Really enjoyed the story – easy to read, loved the style and humor – and how true those prayers are!

    But this is a test, right? I see a few others have commented on a couple of things. Please don’t be offended at this critique – but I must confess that I get distracted from the writer’s intent when I find grammar and syntax issues. My Gift of the Spirit is clearly criticism, honed by 4 decades of software development (where if it’s not exactly right, it’s wrong). Here are my notes, with apologies …

    * not
    * not
    * not
    * not
    * not
    * not
    * If you’re not capitalizing , don’t capitalize
    * not
    * not

    Also:
    * I’d probably hyphenate and
    * In view of the intended audience, I’d capitalize

    Let me know if I can whine about anything else! Happy flights…

    Comment by Steve Gwilt (@swggy) — September 1, 2011 @ 1:52 pm

  78. Yeahhhhhh…..this is so exciting….read this and wanted to keep reading and I don’t like to read!!!! Congrats I knew this would be worth the wait!!!

    Comment by Joan Lesky — September 1, 2011 @ 1:55 pm

  79. OK – try that again with a different delimiter – sorry.

    Here are my comments…
    * (5’8″ in heels] not [(5’8″ in heals]
    * [The not so good news] not [The not as good of news]
    * [Travel to and from] not [Travel too and from]
    * [other travelers’ prayers] not [other travelers prayers]
    * [hyper-energized] not [hyper energized]
    * [that it really isn’t] not [that’s it really isn’t]
    * If you’re not capitalizing [pastor], don’t capitalize [Chiropractor]
    * [completing his thought.] not [completing his thought.”]
    * [we’ve gone through in] not [we’ve gone thru in]
    Also:
    * I’d probably hyphenate [three year old] and [thirteen year old]
    * In view of the intended audience, I’d capitalize [scriptures]

    Comment by Steve Gwilt (@swggy) — September 1, 2011 @ 1:57 pm

  80. Pastor Greg, I love this excerpt! I can’t wait to read the entire book…your writing style is just like your preaching style: so real and very riveting. Thanks for sharing this little piece!!

    Comment by Abbi Russo — September 1, 2011 @ 1:59 pm

  81. It sounds just like you Greg, one of the reasons that I love to hear you speak. Your ability to be comfortably authentic always resonates with me. You’ve been one of my favorite ARC speakers, I’ve enjoyed them all, and I always connect with you. Looking forward to the read.

    Comment by Scott — September 1, 2011 @ 2:40 pm

  82. I’m looking forward to reading all of your book. I love listening/reading about other people’s lessons in life. I believe it is important to learn from other’s mistakes and successes. Thank you for sharing your life’s lessons.
    I love that you are my pastor!
    Renee Koval

    Comment by Renee Koval — September 1, 2011 @ 2:42 pm

  83. This hit home. Big time. I am sitting here with a break between classes, and I have tears blocking my view. I cannot wait to read the rest! This was divinely encouraging. :) Thank you, Pastor Greg!

    Comment by Michaela — September 1, 2011 @ 2:47 pm

  84. Love it! I’ll be buying one even if I don’t get lucky enough to win 1of the 5. Our Life Group is also a book club and Ir-rev-rend sounds like super book club material. Thanks

    Comment by Ellen Scully — September 1, 2011 @ 3:04 pm

  85. What a great read. I too cried, smiled, laughed, and cried even more.So beautiful but so sweetly convicted. I am looking forward to the book. Thanks Pastor Greg

    Comment by Shannon Smith — September 1, 2011 @ 3:14 pm

  86. Insightful, funny and convicting. I will look forward to reading the rest of the story.

    Comment by Bonnie Arnold — September 1, 2011 @ 4:18 pm

  87. Man, I’m intrigued already! Great stuff!

    I love how real and authentic you are about the feelings and thoughts that went on during the pre-flight and flight. We all get that way.

    I’m looking forward to reading more.

    Comment by Shane — September 1, 2011 @ 4:27 pm

  88. Dude! I love it when I think that I’m doing God’s will and I’m all in the middle of His plans. Then, out of nowhere, God ends up using the circumstances to teach or guide me, and I end up feeling more blessed than whomever i was attempting to help. Your story humorously reminded me of those times in my life, and I appreciate that your honesty and candor in relating your own humanity throughout it! Can’t wait for the whole book!

    Comment by Donald Rose — September 1, 2011 @ 4:30 pm

  89. Me, Me! Pick me! I’ll read the book anyway, but would LOVE the give away copy :)

    Comment by Jackie — September 1, 2011 @ 4:33 pm

  90. Exceptional! Love the flow and the personalization you offer! You disarm the reader and draw them into your kitchen. Very comfortable! Great job! Would love to read in it’s entirety!

    Comment by Pastor Charles — September 1, 2011 @ 4:56 pm

  91. Two thumbs way up – you’re a gifted writer – looking forward to reading more

    Comment by Scott turner — September 1, 2011 @ 4:58 pm

  92. WOW! Man, that was timing. I saw Pete Wilson Retweet a link to this, and took a look. I’ve been wrestling this week with what God wants from me, and feeling impatient and discontented waiting for answers and direction. What a BABY I am! Dang! I’m so hung up on trying to get back into “ministry” in a church that I’m missing ministry where I AM! Thanks for posting this!

    Comment by Josh — September 1, 2011 @ 5:01 pm

  93. WOW – if the rest of the book is like that I am hooked!!

    Comment by Kristin Smith — September 1, 2011 @ 5:02 pm

  94. Comment.

    Comment by Wes Stichweh — September 1, 2011 @ 5:14 pm

  95. Wow the preview was amazing. I must say that I cannot wait till I can fully read the book.

    Comment by frank flowers — September 1, 2011 @ 5:23 pm

  96. A great preview. I loved the story telling in it. I can’t wait to pick up the rest of the book.

    This one has definitely made my list.

    Comment by James — September 1, 2011 @ 5:58 pm

  97. Pastor Greg, this book sounds better than I imagined and I really want a free (autographed copy) so here’s the deal: If you pick me, I promise to:
    1. stop praying (before every Carolina game) that Lattimore will twist his ankle
    2. Read your book as soon as I finish Max Lucado’s Traveling Light
    3. buy 5 copies and send to my unchurched, heathen friends

    Love ya and everything about Seacoast; don’t sweat the misspelled words, sounds like you have some very literate friends.

    Comment by Miriam Stanley — September 1, 2011 @ 6:30 pm

  98. In today’s harsh climate of finding fault with others, being unwilling to consider another perspective and professing the only right way is their way it is truly refreshing to read an account of self reflection, self critique and acknowledgement that we are simply seekers, forever striving to be the best we can be, that we are all vulnerable. It’s a powerful message when expressed by the Pastor of a large and successful church, the world will be a better place if this book encourages others to start with introspection and self critique.

    Comment by Pkirkcourtney — September 1, 2011 @ 6:40 pm

  99. Your book comes out on my son’s birthday. I can’t wait to purchase copies to share with family and friends. What a great way to share you with loved ones! I can hear your voice and see your smile as I read your words and think that is very special. I am happy for you and praying that many will be blessed. Praise God!

    Comment by Ellea Tunick — September 1, 2011 @ 6:46 pm

  100. Nothing like being real!!! Thanks for being you! I look forward to reading the rest.

    Comment by Christine — September 1, 2011 @ 7:06 pm

  101. Awesome story. If the rest of the book is that good, LOOK OUT! Love it.

    Comment by Ivey Rhodes — September 1, 2011 @ 7:43 pm

  102. A natural story teller. Cannot wait to read the rest.

    Comment by Nick connolly — September 1, 2011 @ 8:21 pm

  103. I like the honesty, openess, and transparency Pastor Greg! It’s always good to reflect on the most important things in life as well as God’s faithfulness to meet us in any difficulty when we call to Him. Many blessings!

    Comment by Gary Borgstede — September 1, 2011 @ 8:28 pm

  104. Hey Greg, thanks for being canny full of life and sharing the reality with good tong and cheek love. This style of book has been long over due. May God bless you and enrich you to mentor more young leaders like myself. I will turn 40 this year, which is quite strange to me, but I didn’t attend Moody Bible Institute until I was 31. I am living back over seas in Italia trying to help develop leaders. To tell you the truth, young leader really need to hear great stories from those who have fought the good fight, hearing RAW is something we all desperately need, not sugar coated, but the un-cut un produced side has it’s humor too. Thank you again

    With love, I’ll see you in paradise

    Thomas

    Comment by Thomas McEwen — September 1, 2011 @ 8:44 pm

  105. In many ways the quest for a good book is one of life great journeys. When I find one I keep it on my Kindel, it never gets transferred into the archives. I tell my friends about a book that touched, changed, or improved my life.

    Greg’s book will stay on my Kindel. I will be telling my friends about this great book they need to read. It’s funny, unblinking, and just might change their life.

    That being said, pick me pick me!!!

    Dee

    Comment by Dee — September 1, 2011 @ 9:08 pm

  106. You’ve summed up the reason I tell everyone to visit our church. For a pastor, church staff, and family that are real people and not afraid to be authentic. I have never heard a message I couldn’t keep close to my heart, and this chapter from your book is yet another example of that. I can’t wait to read more and share it!

    Comment by Kat Kelling — September 1, 2011 @ 9:14 pm

  107. I loved it. I love that you are not afraid to tell us your faults and short comings (no pun intended (: ) It goes a long way in connecting with your people, your audience.

    Comment by Amy Scott — September 1, 2011 @ 9:19 pm

  108. Wow!!! I love how God will put all the right people in our way at just the right time!!! He takes something that we might see as unfortunate but plays a big part in the big picture! Like the other day when I spilled coffee grounds in my baige car. A full list of things happened to prevent me from vacuuming it for another 6 hrs. That was when I finally pulled into a gas station vacuum where someone was already at. Turned out that lady was praying for a way to figure out how to pump her tires and I just happened to have an emergency air pump in my trunk and was able to help her. In the end she was able to help me with offering to sell her car for what we could afford so I could start volunteering more at the church. I can’t wait to read the full thing!!! I’ve been looking for a christian book that I could benifite from but also wasn’t too instructional it would bore me lol. Thank you for all your wisdom and insight!!!!

    Comment by Caitlin Dotson — September 1, 2011 @ 9:36 pm

  109. Loved it! I was laughing the whole time. I love that you are honest enough to share your shortcomings! Can’t wait to read the rest!

    Comment by Angela Dooley Marklin — September 1, 2011 @ 9:48 pm

  110. This is a Double batch of Cookies good, let me know when you are ready for them. Cant wait to read the whole book.

    Comment by Kelly Rourk — September 1, 2011 @ 10:00 pm

  111. Looks like a great book – can’t wait to read it (even if I don’t win it!).

    Comment by Pat Callahan — September 1, 2011 @ 10:11 pm

  112. Pastor, thank you for sharing this. It is humbling to read and look at myself, but very powerful. Thank you for your authenticity. I look forward to the rest of the book.

    Comment by Mark B — September 1, 2011 @ 10:23 pm

  113. Pastor Greg,
    Just like you the book is real and funny and exactly what I would expect. I can’t wait to read the rest!

    Comment by Janet Koenig — September 1, 2011 @ 10:38 pm

  114. I LOVE IT! Count me among your Kindle purchasers.

    I hate to post something negative, but I believe you have another spelling error. In “she and her husband had actually been apart of the group”, I believe “apart” should be “a part” or only “part”. They were in the group instead of separated from it.

    Comment by Sandy Meier — September 1, 2011 @ 10:41 pm

  115. A fully engaging story about a man who understands who God made him to be and how he lives out God’s brand for his life. When you share the blessing this man gave to you, I am even more encouraged to watch for God at work in my life through other people.

    Comment by Gail Derreberry — September 1, 2011 @ 10:46 pm

  116. Wow, I started reading after I saw the advertisement of the release 3 times today. See, 3 is my number. That’s my book…for one day. Basically it’s affirmation that I am being guided by The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit (saved for the days when I am being sent a message and I am blinded by other things…I get slapped with the 3). Reading your words tonight answered a question that I have always known the answer to but didn’t …..if you know what I mean. My friends see me, some hear my story some watch it happen live. It’s such a story, we created a name for it, “Leckieville”. At the end of the day they all ask the same question. That question I didn’t think I knew the answer to. “How do you keep a smile and always seem to be so happy”. Now I can say….BECAUSE IT’S SUPPOSE TO BE! Thank you for passing that message to me :)

    Comment by Carolyn Leckie — September 1, 2011 @ 11:09 pm

  117. I love how honest, down to earth, and real you are. I feel like I can relate. I wish I had met “John”. I have met people like him before that are amazing and so strong in their faith. They are an inspiration. My husband and I will be reading your book.

    Comment by Heather McD — September 1, 2011 @ 11:16 pm

  118. Your story was both entertaining, and authentic. Entertaining, because you are a talented writer. Authentic, because I know Jon Carlile probably better than anyone alive today. He is the Man that God used to lead me to Christ approximately 32 years ago,two weeks after he dedicated his life to Christ. Since that time, he and I have been “Accountability Brothers Born for Adversity” (ABBA) Which is the name of the men’s group that I have just begun through Northwood Assembly. We have walked it seems through everything imaginable, but together. His words to you were honest and true. He was and is exactly as you described him, and his portrayal of his perspectives on life and hardship were honest. This was a true rendering of the man I have known all these years since I was 9 years old. I have had the honor of his pastorate in my own life, and am eternally greatful. He is a man, he is not perfect, but his heart is perfect toward God, and that’s what makes him the perfect friend. Thanks for writing about him.

    Comment by SEAN TABOR — September 1, 2011 @ 11:32 pm

  119. Greg, through a story we can all relate to in some way or another you reminded me that growing is a lifelong process. We all have moments or seasons in our lives where growth is slower or not visible to the eye, due to lack nourishment. In those times our prayers naturally reflect our own discomfort. Christ prayed one of those in the garden! During those times our growth happens in searching deeper for food for the soul. Thanks for watering my dry pot throughout the years!

    Comment by TJ Webster — September 2, 2011 @ 12:28 am

  120. I can see this being a page-turner. A great first chapter that I could relate to and laugh about. I’d enjoy reading the rest and seeing how develop the book in talking about authentic Christianity.

    Comment by Tammy — September 2, 2011 @ 2:26 am

  121. Well it’s me, I’m the chiropractor you met on the plane. I can’t remember exactly how long ago, I think a couple of years or so. Any way a friend Sean Tabor told me about your book tonight. I decided to read your preface and wanted to comment on what I think gave me power to be me. It’s simple with preachers like Fred Richards, Robert Spadley, truth is I was blessed to have some of Charlestons finest teach me Gods word. Boy does Gods word make a difference exspeally when your forced to believe it. I mean trials can make you or break you depending on how you choose to respond. I was told in Bible school that if you respond to trials if faith , they will make you better. If you respond to trials in fear doubt and unbief, they can make you bitter. I think life can be full of trials, it’s kind of a seran dippity expire ce that buds your character along the way. Well any way I wanted to tell you my secret. It’s not only listen g to great preaching it’s listening to Gods word. I know it sounds clushae, who cares there are plenty of versions to listen to. It works listening to Gods word changed my life. I wish I could say I didn’t have feet of clay, but I do. Many times I honestly listen to Gods word even after knowing I just meditated on something I should not have. Guess what his word cleanses to the utter most. I also amazed with Gods word that I listen to the Word during my work hours over the speaker system. I want all of my patients and staff to hear Gods precious word. I go home at night and turn on my I phone and listen to Gods word when I sleep I listen to Gods word. I currently attempt to hear the word from Genisis to revelations about every three to four weeks and repeat the process often. I feel that Gods word is the most important thing I can give my self to. One other thing I want to say I am very happy to say that my children are doing well. My youngest Hannah, is sixteen, she attends Fair hill Christian school in Fairbanks Alaska, my next oldest child is a senior at hutcheson high also in Fairbanks. My next oldest just graduated high school and attends Lee university in Cleveland Tn. My oldest is attending South eastern University in Lakeland Fla. I told you this because I see Gods faithfulness and answered prayers. God is amazing. I love him and want to spend the rest of my life serving my flock at Carlile Chiropractic. I am pleased that you referee to me in your book. I’m so glad that after so many years God kindly allows me be re instated back I to the lives I left over thirty years ago. I want to thank Fred Richards and Rob Spradley, Jim Kelly, Jeff Stockford, and Sue Nesmith for being there in YouthQuake. Gods word, Gods people, Gods Spirit what a combo. Now that’s a hardy meal that feeds this Charlestonian Alaska boy. I love you thanks for sharing and allowing me to share on the plane. God bless you if you want to keep in touch I would love to take you into the wilderness. If you want pictures let me know. Thank you dr jon Carlile bsdc

    Comment by Dr Jon Carlile — September 2, 2011 @ 7:01 am

  122. Love it Greg! I connected to your dancing partner seatmate. I lost a wife to a drunk driver and now know Gods restoration, but it’s such a great reminder to stay others focused. I forget sometimes. Keep up the great work! Derek

    Comment by Derek Turner — September 2, 2011 @ 8:08 am

  123. More, more more!!!!! I want to read more! How many more days until September 28th?!

    Comment by Terri Ridgeway (Manning Campus) — September 2, 2011 @ 8:15 am

  124. Wow, what a start to the promise of more to come! Greg, you write as you live: real, self disclosing, honest and unassuming. I believe God has given you experiences and stories like this along with all the biblical insights you have passed along over the years because you pass them on in a way He wants them passed so people like me can find steps for myself to follow Jesus better. And it is always funny, some emotional, a little wreid and hugely impactful. Thanks for all the ways you have done this in my life these years traveling together!
    I certainly can’t wait to read more!

    Comment by Ron Hamilton — September 2, 2011 @ 8:42 am

  125. Wow! What a conversation your book has already started! Loved the authenticity of your writing – and the power of the story with the analogy of traveling RIGHT!
    What an absolute privilege to read the comment by Dr. John Carlile from Alaska – bringing an update on his story and adding insights to the key to a proper attitude in his absolute absorption in God’s Word.
    ….Hope you are encouraged in this new venture, Pa Greg.
    It is clear we love being your church – as you point us to living life in passionate pursuit of Jesus!

    Comment by Sharon Miner — September 2, 2011 @ 9:00 am

  126. Great! I can’t wait to read the rest and share it!

    Comment by Amy Karpus — September 2, 2011 @ 9:04 am

  127. Greg – I have to say – I cannot WAIT to read your book. After 3 years as members of Seacoast, we moved in March to Charlotte NC. I had no idea when we moved that the thing we would miss the most – no, really the single thing we really really miss – would be our church. After visiting six different churches in Charlotte (5,972 left to go…) we are realizing just how much God is able to use you to reach people through Seacoast. Yes, you’re talented, funny, witty and all that stuff – but God is able to channel it all into such a productive package. Amazing.

    I love the excerpt from the book – it is definitely true. I’ve found myself uttering some of those same prayers – and being the target of some too, I suspect.

    Looking forward to reading the whole book!

    Comment by Steve A — September 2, 2011 @ 9:23 am

  128. Looking forward to reading, and sharing it.

    Comment by Roger Redford — September 2, 2011 @ 9:23 am

  129. I read a lot of blogs. As a matter of fact, my blog is dedicated to reposting great posts. I am also a native of East of the Cooper and related to the Charleston part very well. (I.e, the lights burn brighter downtown because they are closer to the battery).

    This is one of the best posts I have ever read and look forward to the book. Thanks for posting!!

    Comment by Charlie Waller — September 2, 2011 @ 9:39 am

  130. Loved the truth and rawness of this story! Your teaching style always speaks to me. I look forward to the rest!

    Comment by Laura Petrino — September 2, 2011 @ 9:43 am

  131. So fun to still read and follow you on Twitter from Colorado! I am looking forward to the book! And I can sure echo those prayers, flying when you are 6’3″ is no picnic either! Pass my hello to Michael and Cindy Morris too! From your Colorado Springs (and former Seacoaster) Realtor!

    Comment by Kim Carper — September 2, 2011 @ 9:46 am

  132. Greg,
    Ditto above! You had me at Prayer #1. Been there done that. I am always amazed at the divine appointments I have on airliners. Thanks for sharing a part of your life with us. I look forward to diving into the rest of the book.

    Comment by Wayne Nelson — September 2, 2011 @ 9:50 am

  133. Wow, I’d be at least 2 of the people you don’t want to sit next too.
    Talker and Small [5' 4"--I don't wear heals or heels].

    Comment by Roger Redford — September 2, 2011 @ 9:52 am

  134. I absolutely LOVE what I just read! I truly miss attending Seacoast, but I am grateful that technology allows me to continue to grow in my faith through you. I’m looking forward to owning this book!

    Comment by Julie Carroll — September 2, 2011 @ 9:55 am

  135. One last thought: Since Dr. Jon posted…he should be one of the ones to get a free copy. Not that I’m telling you what to do of course, but do it anyway.

    Comment by Roger Redford — September 2, 2011 @ 9:55 am

  136. First thought, Pastor Greg, is: If I’m ever on the same flight, and I see an available seat next to you…I’ll keep walking. (Re:#1-3 prayers) Second thought: (as I fight back the tears) I’ve seen that faith in the eyes of a woman who so completely and wholeheartedly had been healed by God of the most devistating tragedy a mother could face, the death of a child. It was in her eyes I found hope that no matter what I had to face in this world, my God was Sovreign over it and He would carry me through to the other side of it. People like this are living, breathing testimony of a loving Savior that not only exists and loves us beyond comprehension…but He is able (and so willing) to take the worst of life’s experiences and heartaches, and reconfigure it into a masterpiece. Magnificent, not only to the beholder, but to the cranky pastor in the next seat.

    Comment by Sara Overman — September 2, 2011 @ 9:56 am

  137. Greg, Thanks so much for the excerpt…and for keeping it real! and….thanks to Sue’s cousin, for his testimony on the plane and his testimony on the blog! We have certainly had the experience that we believed we should “go here to do this” and it ended up that the Lord had another plan. It is easy to be discouraged, but we have to know that we obeyed God and His will may not fit into the box we had tried to squeeze it into…the one that is comfortable for us. Love his encouragement on the blog….”God’s Word, God’s Word, God’s Word…..That is where our hearts and minds are transformed:) Many Blessings to you and your wonderful family and thank you for continuing to obey God each step of the way! Lorrie

    Comment by Lorrie Ferguson — September 2, 2011 @ 10:23 am

  138. Loved it! We were members of Seacoast West and are at The Net now in TN. We love Ryan but do miss your sermons immensely! We always attend when we make it to Chas and often watch online. God has used you so amazingly and you are so open to his teaching in all the experiences of yor life. Thanks for helping us try to do the same. Blessings to you & your fam.

    Comment by Judy bain — September 2, 2011 @ 10:38 am

  139. Pastor Greg – you have the beautiful gift of narrative and it flows very well. Looking forward to the book release at the end of the month.

    Comment by Michael Johnson — September 2, 2011 @ 11:12 am

  140. Love it again! Thanks for being the real deal. Excited to see when this hits the NY Times bestsellers!

    Comment by Kathy — September 2, 2011 @ 11:24 am

  141. “Christianity without the pretense, faith without the facade” Interesting Subtitle :-) Sadly, there has been and is still much ‘pretense’ and ‘facade’ in the body of Christ today. Not sure why but possibly it begins in the “pulpit”. One thing I always loved and appreciated about you and Debbie was your realness – fully committed to God, yet down to earth, real, approachable Christians. I like your writing style, Greg. I look forward to reading your book, and very interested in what you have to teach on this topic. Blessings!

    Comment by Julie (DiModica) Lamm — September 2, 2011 @ 11:27 am

  142. You are not only a great speaker, but a great writer as well. I felt like I was squished in the seat with you as you told this wonderful story. Can’t wait to read the entire book.

    Comment by Donna Joyce — September 2, 2011 @ 11:29 am

  143. You write like you preach, which is great! Looking forward to getting your book.

    Comment by Sally Hogg — September 2, 2011 @ 11:30 am

  144. Just keeping it real…..can’t argue with that ever. Looking forward to the rest

    Comment by cindy ward — September 2, 2011 @ 11:38 am

  145. Pastor Greg,
    You have once again confirmed the reason why I attend Seacoast Church! You are the “real deal”. You and “John the Chiropractor” summed up my current life as God sent me back to school at age 50 to earn my degree in Christian Counseling and Life Coaching! The following statements from your book are very powerful! “But how can you be discouraged when you know you are where your’re suppose to be” And also, “God is in control. It’s His job to figure that stuff out. I guess my job is to keep my attitude right and just follow His lead”. I can not wait to read your book!
    Thank you for being our pastor!

    Comment by Gail Fugle — September 2, 2011 @ 11:58 am

  146. Looking forward to your book Greg. You do write from the heart and your writing and messages reflect that you’re human too and maybe, if you’ve had struggles the rest of us have a chance.

    Comment by Don — September 2, 2011 @ 12:07 pm

  147. MONTANA NEEDS A COPY OF YOUR BOOK!!!!!!! I used to live outside of Chas and attended Seacoast and moved back home to a small town in western Montana that my great grand parents brought my grandfather to and our families have been here ever since,about six years ago. I still listen to you online and have tons of your CD’s…when I was reading this excerpt of your book I could even imagine your voice telling the story lol…it was great and I am anxious to read the rest of it! So please send a copy across the country to rural Montana and I will share it, I promise!

    Comment by Shelby Zigler — September 2, 2011 @ 12:26 pm

  148. Looks great! I can’t wait to read the rest!

    Comment by Kellie Copeland — September 2, 2011 @ 12:42 pm

  149. 1-You are a very good writer, Pastor
    2-I laughed out loud several times
    3-I love “real” people
    4-Continual process of being more like Jesus

    Comment by Mia Tran — September 2, 2011 @ 1:51 pm

  150. Look at what’s happening here with just an excerpt! Imagine the impact of the whole book!

    Comment by Sandy Meier — September 2, 2011 @ 1:55 pm

  151. Pastor Greg – Thank you for your honesty! I have to admit that I cringed at your truthful ‘ungodly’ thoughts and thought to myself, “How could you say such a thing??!” LOL – Awesome! I remember when you challenged the church to fast for a week against ‘Complaining’ and I wondered if that happened near the time you had this experience? I still catch myself when I complain waiting in a drive-thru line, etc etc etc. Lessons like these don’t just buzz in one ear & out the other. They impact our daily routines & shake us up a little. Love it! Thanks for being my Pastor!

    Comment by Bonnie Wallace — September 2, 2011 @ 1:56 pm

  152. Pastor Greg, you always keep me laughing and learning. You are rooted down deep in the Truth and always growing in love with the Lord. Even as big as you are in our eyes, you always have a teachable spirit when it comes to things of God; you are open to learning from Him wherever He wants to speak. Your complete confidence in Him and humility before Him draws people toward the Lord. Thank you so much for sharing that with us and encouraging us in our own journeys.

    Faith is personal, but we can walk among friends! So blessed to hear you on Sundays and now through this book. Thanks for being courageous and determined to write about life with our Lord! Can’t wait to read more.

    Comment by Jennifer Williamson — September 2, 2011 @ 1:59 pm

  153. Wow, if the rest of the book is like that excerpt, I gotta get a copy! Hope I win a free one. Thanks for being honest, Greg.

    Comment by Dan Brubacher — September 2, 2011 @ 2:04 pm

  154. Wow…. That was such a humbling story. What an incredible amount of trust

    Comment by Billy Rogers — September 2, 2011 @ 2:11 pm

  155. Great job! I’m looking forward to reading the rest. The first part didn’t seem to flow as good as it could but when you started into the story-telling mode on the airplane, I was riveted. I have to admit that a couple times something must flown into my eye because it teared up. Thanks for being genuinely REAL!

    Comment by Steve Wright — September 2, 2011 @ 4:17 pm

  156. I am totally hooked. Your words in prayer of flying are always my jumbled thoughtsl. I cant wait for your book to come out to read more of your fun and powerful thoughts of general things in life. It is because of you that I am where I am today. I’m so honored to call you my pastor.

    Comment by Label Lane — September 2, 2011 @ 7:52 pm

  157. Greg, your description of Jon and his enthusiasm was perfect. He is so inspirational even in the worst of times. He would always say, “I just want to stay in God’s will”. It is because we were raised in a good Christian home. We were members of Northwoods Assembly when Sea Coast was started. So we had the good training and direction of Pastor Richards. In fact, my wife and I were married there by Doug Cotton. When Jon totally committed his life to God, he never looked back.
    He has amazed me in his accomplishments, which haven’t come easy. When he was at Life Chiropractic University in Atlanta, he didn’t have tuition for his sophomore year. He was insistent that God would provide a way. I’ll never forget the day he called me in Charleston to say he was on the Rugby team. John had never played any high school sport and he really didn’t know what Rugby was. But that’s where enthusiasm, following God’s will and 285 pounds of Jon Carlile can do. I asked him if he ever scored. He said they just put me in to rough people up. Either God is a big sports fan or He wanted Jon to get that sophomore year scholarship.
    I’m glad you had an opportunity to meet Jon and share his story.
    I’m proud to be his brother.
    Ed

    Comment by Ed Carlile — September 2, 2011 @ 8:36 pm

  158. I really appreciate the honesty that you use to tell this story. So often we pretend to be oh holy me. I mean after all we do get tired and pray those #1-3 type prayer in many situations. Thanks to the John’s in this world to wake us up!

    this line kills me, “came the response from my new dance partner”

    Hoping to get the Book. will add it to my Amazon Wish list

    Comment by Jason — September 3, 2011 @ 6:32 pm

  159. Looks like a great read!

    Comment by Ramsey Duck — September 3, 2011 @ 7:39 pm

  160. The fact that you always keep it real is what keeps me coming back. You’re not on the pulpit preaching down to the lowly sinners…you’re sitting next to us and telling us one of your endless (in number, sometimes in lenghth :P ) stories and how it relates back to God. You always tell it on such a real level that there’s no way I can’t get it… unless I don’t want to. Thank you for all that you do, and keep it up! :D

    Comment by Kragh Kelling — September 4, 2011 @ 7:59 am

  161. wow makes you think. So many times we are so trapped in our little world and our little pitty parties we fail to remember that God put us where we are for a reason and where we are is our ministry.

    Comment by Elizabeth L — September 4, 2011 @ 8:26 am

  162. Eight years after moving from Charleston, I still cannot replace the feeling of a “home” church quite like Seacoast – with you as our fearless leader – gave me. I miss it all and cannot wait to get my hands on a copy of your book so that I can have a little piece of home – for a while, at least – when I pick it up to read the next chapter. Your humor, devotion, ability to tackle hard subjects, and “relate-ability factor” are 2nd to none. You stand your (God’s) ground without taking a popular way out and I respect you immensely. I absolutely cannot wait to read your words. May God grant you continued success!

    Comment by Leigh — September 4, 2011 @ 2:52 pm

  163. I don’t know what the rest of your book will be about but this chapter is awesome. I love the way you combine serious coversation with comedy. This is one of the many reasons I love Seacoast worship so much. Shows you can be a Christian and still have good fun. Thank you for being my pastor.

    Comment by Powell Hill — September 4, 2011 @ 2:55 pm

  164. Pastor Greg, that excert was very inspiring as you always are too! I cannot wait to read the rest of your book!

    “God’s in control. It’s his job to figure that stuff out. I guess my job is to keep my attitude right and just follow his lead.”. He couldn’t have said that better…thank you!

    Comment by Jenna S — September 4, 2011 @ 3:01 pm

  165. Pastor Greg,
    This makes me even more excited to dive into this book upon it’s release and gather a new perspective from your thoughts. As an ever growing and developing Christ follower, I am constantly seeking new ways of thinking. Thanks for loving the Lord and being an obedient follower/servant. You have helped me so much along my journey.

    Comment by Brandi boswell — September 4, 2011 @ 3:03 pm

  166. Can’t wait to read it!

    Comment by Art — September 4, 2011 @ 3:04 pm

  167. I believe that your book will continue the work that you started many years ago. The reason why Seacoast is so successful is because Seacoast and churches that follow it’s model have found a way to do church that brings the relevancy of the Gospel to the people (all of us) that need it.

    Comment by Fred Johnson — September 4, 2011 @ 3:06 pm

  168. I hope this is a really long book! My concern is that these stories are so engaging I’ll have to figure out a budgeting plan to pace myself! It will be very sad to start and not put the book down until it is finished and then have to wait for you to write the next one. It’s like buying the new John Grisham and knowing you’ll have to wait another year or more when you finish. Fortunately for me however, unlike John Grisham, you have a church and I get to hear you most weekends! Thank you for writing this and modeling a humble and teachable heart!

    Comment by Angela Peterson — September 4, 2011 @ 3:11 pm

  169. I can’t wait to read more!!!

    Comment by kimberlee — September 4, 2011 @ 3:12 pm

  170. Just the title has me intriqued. I think any one who has grown up in the church – and many times forced to sit through it – will find a joy to read this book. Speaking from a “pk” – I know we are judged more than most and I wish you the very best in continuing success of your mission.

    Comment by Marsha — September 4, 2011 @ 3:15 pm

  171. Wow… Loved it. Cant wait for more. Who cares about winning one I am in to buy for myself and family gifts.. This is going to be really cool.
    Lori

    Comment by lori langston — September 4, 2011 @ 3:18 pm

  172. Love it so far. This will make Christmas shopping so much easier this year. I’ll pay extra if you wrap it…

    Comment by Amber — September 4, 2011 @ 3:20 pm

  173. I don’t want a book, just that guys name. I feel like I could use a little “adjustment.”

    Comment by matt — September 4, 2011 @ 3:25 pm

  174. Can’t wait to read your book Pastor Greg! I love the title :)

    Comment by Shannon Phelps — September 4, 2011 @ 3:32 pm

  175. Well I pray to sit next to someone like you when I get on a plane, because I would get great discussion or conversation about being a Christian and all that goes along with that, plus you are a gadget guy, and you could educate me on God and gadgets. Once I sat next to a gadget guy on an airplane, now I’m tuned into that world, so what could be better, God and gadgets to help personal growth and spread the word, which reminds me of a time when a friend of mine and I were on a business trip to Mass., we talked the entire flight (of course out of Charlotte, not here) about God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, and what it meant to me, and my transformation, then my friend, a church elder, was amazed about what I had to say, and apparently others were too, because when we landed, the folks in the seats in front of us turned and said to us, “God Bless you both for that testimony!”, and that’s the truth, I cried right then and there. Just like I am now. Thank you for all you and the Seacoast community does everywhere.

    Comment by Craig Watson — September 4, 2011 @ 3:49 pm

  176. God has been calling me to more joy – reminding me that the joy of the Lord is my strength. This preview reminded me of the childlike faith that fuels my joy. Thank you for writing honestly & being willing to hear what God has to say & sharing it with us

    Comment by Jenny Kerr — September 4, 2011 @ 4:13 pm

  177. Loved It! Cant wait to get the book and continue.

    Comment by Lisa Kaminski — September 4, 2011 @ 4:21 pm

  178. Greg,
    I very much enjoyed the chapter of your new book. You made me laugh!!!! That’s what I always liked about you, you are a real person, not fake and always tell it like a regular guy. Not holding back because other people might think less of you for your thoughts or actions. Your chapter was great and easy to read. The message at the end was very thought provoking. I am sure alot of people will be blessed by this book. I am going to order my copy today.
    Take Care and I hope that you sell ALOT of books,
    God Bless,
    Kim Riley-Smith
    Lanark, Illinois

    Comment by Kim Riley-Smith — September 4, 2011 @ 4:23 pm

  179. Wow… I am hooked. I definitely want to read more. But, I have to be honest, Pastor Greg, there are quite a few typos and they detracted from the powerfulness of the story being told.

    Comment by Rosalyn Hooper — September 4, 2011 @ 4:35 pm

  180. Thanks for keeping it real! As always, I enjoy your ability to allow the Lord to speak through you, while not losing yourself, your wit and humor in the mix.

    Not to sound like your former English teacher or mother but, I noticed several improper uses of “too” and misspellings. Is this your final draft?

    All the best, may the Lord bless all who read your words,

    Sandee

    Comment by Sandee Sutphin — September 4, 2011 @ 5:04 pm

  181. Great chapter! I love your realness! I’m a Pastor’s wife and I have thought all of these things before in similar situations. But as usual God has a sense of humor and teaches me something from it. Can’t wait to read the rest of this book! Thanks for sharing.

    Comment by Amy Teachey — September 4, 2011 @ 5:07 pm

  182. I loved this story because you are so transparent and real in relating your emotions! And it didn’t hurt that Pastor Chris is my Pastor and I live in Birmingham! I can’t wait to read the rest of the book! Come back and speak to us at CoTH soon! Blessings!

    Comment by Carolyn Ivey — September 4, 2011 @ 5:38 pm

  183. Pastor Greg,

    LOVE your authenticity and transparency!! Great stories of inspiration and I definitely appreciate your sense of humor. The results of your prayers proves that our heavenly Father has a GREAT sense of humor as well. :) And it’s amazing how God ordered your steps and caused you to “SIT in heavenly places” referring to your SEAT on the plane. LOL! I can fully relate. Looking forward to reading the entire book for more laughs and gaffes.

    Blessings!

    Comment by Gary Teachey — September 4, 2011 @ 5:54 pm

  184. Loved this chapter Pastor Greg. This chapter really touched me. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for a little over a year–dealing with some fertility issues. It has been hard dealing with it, being the only one in my family who has dealt with this issue and with it seeming that everybody around is either pregnant or having a baby. I find it hard to understand why we are having a hard time having our baby when there are people out here having babies and then harming them. But I realize that I am not meant to understand why God does what He does and when He does. This chapter really hit home that even though my plans are not going like I would like them to, I know that God has a plan for me that will be better than I can even imagine.
    Can’t wait to read the rest of the book.
    Betty

    Comment by Betty Irving — September 4, 2011 @ 7:39 pm

  185. To be fair, once the adrenaline wore off and the plane took off I tried not to talk to you because I figured you get tired of being a celebrity. But geesh you just kept yammering on and on. I said a couple of prayers of my own. I was sorry to see the editor changed the original text from “an intelligent well put together (and most likely very funny) woman” and just went with “young woman”.
    I get it. You needed the space.

    Great chapter. You had me at “no one should be up at that hour.”

    Thank you for the times you have been a part of my story. I’m sure that sentiment could be repeated sincerely all over the world! I look forward to the rest of the stories.

    Comment by Brenda McBride — September 4, 2011 @ 7:50 pm

  186. Got me Brenda! It was a fun ride. And YOU did all the talking :-)

    Comment by Gregsur — September 4, 2011 @ 8:28 pm

  187. Wow! I would camp out to be first in line for it!

    Comment by elizabeth reckdenwald — September 4, 2011 @ 8:37 pm

  188. thanks for being so real, pastor Greg. i can’t wait to read the rest of your book, and to become more aware of God’s leading in my life!

    Comment by Susan Gibbons — September 5, 2011 @ 12:07 am

  189. I thought…if he writes the way he preaches…this will be a best seller. Been blessed since 2004 to hear your weekly sermons at Seacoast Summerville Campus. Thanks to your obedience of founding and pastoring a seeker friendly church, my family sits right in the middle of abundant life today. “Ir-rev-rend” already has an assigned slot in my bookshelf.

    Comment by Zoe Flores — September 5, 2011 @ 8:47 am

  190. I read the pre-release and loved it.
    My Dad (he is 89)read it; he belly laughed in some places and cried in others.
    Thanks for sharing your life with us. The best part of the book is we know it is true!

    Comment by Bobbi — September 5, 2011 @ 10:24 am

  191. Strong stories…the selfish prayers on a flight to somewhere…we can all relate & yet many times we choose to miss more of God’s great story for us because I am tired, selfish, lazy…& as you reminded me, in light of what Jesus did for me, really? Do I think my time & energy important to protect?I think not. Thanks for being honest.

    Comment by Mark McFerran — September 5, 2011 @ 11:46 am

  192. I’m inspired, as I am by all your messages. I’m so excited about the positive impact I know your book will have on the masses.
    I’m hesitant to add, however, that I did notice a couple of spelling errors. Please know that I offer this feedback out of respect and my desire to help you be as successful as possible!

    Comment by Liz Lasicki — September 5, 2011 @ 5:22 pm

  193. What a story. People are so interesting! Your respect and understanding of this man is contagious to anyone who reads it

    Comment by Megan Johnson — September 6, 2011 @ 11:18 am

  194. Thanks so much for the taster, Pastor Greg! Reading it drew me in (especially since I’m between flights right now) and definitely led me to disappointment when the chapter ended and there was no more to read. I can’t wait to read the whole thing!:)

    Comment by Mel — September 6, 2011 @ 5:30 pm

  195. Pastor G,
    I love it! I had to stop, reread and laugh again. I am so excited to read more. I’ll take 3 please! Much love to the man, through God, who is changing my life one sermon at a time for the better…

    Comment by Jennifer Jones-Wood — September 7, 2011 @ 12:03 am

  196. Pastor, I knew you where funny but this book ice the cake. If the entire book is like the first chapter, you may be heading to a NY Times best seller list. I wish you nothing but the best!

    Comment by Elijah Isaiah X — September 7, 2011 @ 3:19 pm

  197. There is definitely a need for Christianity without pretense in this world and this excerpt offers exactly that!

    Comment by Nate — September 7, 2011 @ 3:31 pm

  198. Can’t wait to own it!! So I can share the awesome Pastor we are blessed to have!! I am always boasting about how fun it is to message my Pastor about sports and how we pray for all these players and God answers them for us!! Maybe next time we can have a chapter on how God caused the whole NFL lockout to give Garrett time to heal so he could make our prayers come true!

    Comment by Laura — September 7, 2011 @ 3:39 pm

  199. Pastor Greg, you had me hooked after the first couple sentences. I can’t wait to read the rest of the book. You are so gifted, annointed by God to share your thoughts with others. Also your photographs are awesome. May God continue to bless you as you serve others.

    Comment by Jane Freeman — September 7, 2011 @ 3:39 pm

  200. Love this. I will be buying the book when it comes out.

    Comment by Mark Aldrige — September 7, 2011 @ 4:52 pm

  201. Love your sense of humor! Reminded me of a regular Sunday especially when I found myself laughing then crying back to back…you have a great storytelling gift! I’m looking forward to reading this book just like I look forward to attending Seacoast Long Point every weekend!! (which is a lot of course)

    Comment by Jen Campbell — September 7, 2011 @ 5:06 pm

  202. Thank you for a look into my own heart through yours. You have a way in your messages Each week of reaching us exactly where we are and this preview chapter is no different. I look forward to reading the finished product and seeing how you tie it all together. You always sign you emails and posts to us, “I love being your Pastor.” I hope it is no secret to you that we love it too!

    Comment by Noel Spilbor — September 7, 2011 @ 5:15 pm

  203. I believe that God places us where He feels is best and that we will best receive his teachings and blessings. I too love your messages and what you spoke of in regards to your flight home re-enforces what I believe. God placed your “new best friend” beside you so that you would be able to hear God’s word through this man.

    Comment by Joan Walter — September 7, 2011 @ 7:27 pm

  204. Wow…..Love it so far. Can’t wait 2 read the rest! Great writing!

    Comment by Helen Kroll — September 7, 2011 @ 9:44 pm

  205. Pastor Greg,

    Loved this….laughed and cried then saw Jesus. I am writing a novel right now and am not sure I could handle those comments about correcting grammar(I had to spell check just to write the word grammar). I was thinking the editor would catch things like that? Anyway, thank you for being an amazing example and so relevant. Thank you for being my pastor. Cannot wait to read the rest of the book. Are you going to put it out there for the Nook?

    Comment by Kellyffowler — September 8, 2011 @ 8:41 am

  206. Ah Greg,the Way is shown to us in many forms. This bite of a larger portion of what you have written, makes me hungry to read the rest of your written thoughts.Thank you for so many wonderful glimpses into your blessed life. Diana Warren, September 8 2011

    Comment by Diana Warren — September 8, 2011 @ 8:42 am

  207. Been there, done that but we MUST bloom where we are planted!

    Comment by Valerie Craun — September 11, 2011 @ 2:36 pm

  208. Pastor Greg that is an amazing set of stories! I can relate so much and it’s so easy to see the correlation between your life and work. Your stories on sunday mornings always amaze me, and today was no exception! Thank you for giving such an intimate and comforting message on this 10 year anniversary of 9/11.

    Lee Skinner

    Comment by Lee Skinner — September 11, 2011 @ 4:49 pm

  209. Thank you Greg for stepping out of the boat again and taking the time and risk in writing this book. My prayer is that God’s will be done with your book and it encourages and challenges the readers to reflect and respond. Your ability to share the gospel through humor and story telling may seem to be Ir-rev-rend to some but it is a gift from God. I can hear his whisper…well done my good and faithful servant!

    Comment by Bill — September 15, 2011 @ 9:37 am

  210. WOW! So long as I can get hold of a copy then I’m the winner..freebie or not. What a lovely, honest, sensitive and faith-building book.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you Greg

    Comment by Peter — September 15, 2011 @ 12:10 pm

  211. In this chapter and your messages on Sunday, you have the ability to say what I believe most of us think in regards to “life situations” in a manner that is true but not offensive and then apply scripture or scriptural based philosophy to the situation to bring about understanding. Thank you.

    Comment by Greg Isley — September 18, 2011 @ 4:05 pm

  212. Awesome!! I can’t wait
    I beleive your book will change people’s life and heart. Everyone of us got something to talk about. I can’t wait to read your book and learn from it and use it. God has a purpose for me through your book. I hope someday I can buy it in Spanish so I can share with my family too. God bless you!!

    Comment by Maria Myers — September 21, 2011 @ 2:25 pm

  213. Great encounter! I’m intrigued and encouraged, I want to read more.

    Comment by megg — September 22, 2011 @ 1:47 pm

  214. Can’t wait to read the whole book.
    Actually, I was thinking how is this Pastor going to stay humble and real after becoming even more famous now that he is an author.
    Then I read through the comments and it was so clear… the same folks that are annoyed by typo’s(and felt free to comment)will always be there to keep us from thinking to highly of ourselves:):) smiley faces
    God is in control today and always.
    Vickie

    Comment by vickie countryman — September 22, 2011 @ 8:37 pm

  215. Intrigued….always looking for a new good read….anxious to read the rest! My husband and I have attended Seacoast Longpoint for the last 7 years and have recently left as we felt God leading us to help with a new Arc church plant locally….but nevertheless Seacoast has been such a blessing to us and we have formed lifelong relationships through our time there….other than in passing never really met you (nature of the beast…meaning super large church) but your teachings are so very relevant and at times life changing….we love and respect your vision…we will continue ( via the Internet!) to be a part of this ministry and again are very excited to read your book and see where else God is taking you on this journey!

    Comment by Jeni — September 24, 2011 @ 10:19 am

  216. I love being your parishoner! So blessed by reading your words. Your teaching always seems to hit me to the core. If I had just one ounce of your deep commitment (traveling prayers aside), and humor, life would surely look different.

    I love that your on-line version of IR-REV-REND has links to scripture passages you are mentioning. Nice touch!

    Looking forward to reading the book in entirety, and sharing it!!!

    Blessed to be witness to your ministry!

    Comment by Holly Annibale — September 24, 2011 @ 3:02 pm

  217. Thank you for sharing this except from your life. It really means a lot to me that you are so REAL about who you are and your daily conflicts and struggles. We are all a work in progress in the hands of our Creator.

    Comment by Denise Pisarcik — September 25, 2011 @ 12:11 am

  218. Thank you for your candid honesty! As a pastor, I immediately related and saw myself all through your thought processes on that plane. Thanks for letting God speak through you to remind me of what its all about… JESUS.

    I’m going to download the book on my iPad as soon as it’s available.

    Comment by Michael — September 27, 2011 @ 11:09 am

  219. Love the heart and the humor!!

    Comment by Allison Haase — September 28, 2011 @ 11:30 am

  220. Very inspiring. It would be great if I could find my purpose like the gentleman in the story.

    Comment by Troy — September 28, 2011 @ 11:57 am

  221. Great read? Enjoyed your honesty? We have all thoght the same on our preflight mental check list. Your best friend’s story is very encouraging.

    Comment by Cathy Warren — September 28, 2011 @ 10:10 pm

  222. Thank you for being so real!!! Reading this has reminded me of how important it is to take every thought captive and make it obedient to God’s will. I want to be more aware of my inner thoughts, and your openness is refreshingly helpful. What a blessing to be strategically placed where God wants us for such a time as this…. AND I WANT A COPY OF YOUR BOOK ;) ) We love you!

    Comment by Michele Dotter — September 29, 2011 @ 11:26 am

  223. I can’t wait to get my hands on a copy at church this weekend…. PLS PLS have plenty of copies at the annex in S’ville!

    Comment by Kimberly Rae — September 29, 2011 @ 11:45 am

  224. Totally read my mail! I know all the theology, all the language, all the “supposed-tos”. As a mother of 4, wife of 1, lover of God… I can say all the lingo and live how I am supposed to live. The reality is, my brain still ruins righteousness for me. Enjoyed this preview & will have this book on my “next to read” list!

    Comment by Amber — September 29, 2011 @ 1:14 pm

  225. Greg, Outstanding! Awesome! Insert adjective here ____! I am looking forward to reading the rest of the book. Very excited about how God has used you, from the time I was at Northwood when you launched Seacoast, to hearing all of the phenomenal things God has accomplished through you and your ministry, to this new venture. Good job! Mark

    Comment by Mark Shiver — September 29, 2011 @ 1:26 pm

  226. Thanks Greg,
    I’ve prayed some of those same prayers on flights before. so far I haven’t had an experience quite like yours with the chiropractor, but I did get the opportunity to lead a drunk Marine first sergeant to the Lord on a fight. It was amazing to see him sober up almost instantaneously as we talked.
    I’m encouraged by your story.
    Bill Cole

    Comment by Bill Cole — September 30, 2011 @ 10:39 am

  227. Greg I was born in Charleston SC at Roper Hospital. I’m in the ministry now and am so excited that there is a pastor and church there that has a heart for the city of Charleston! God bless your ministry and I will try to get your book soon! James

    Comment by James Washburn — September 30, 2011 @ 12:59 pm

  228. yo yo yo that chapter was really good! didn’t realize how funny you are!!!

    Comment by Caroline S. — September 30, 2011 @ 1:04 pm

  229. Amazing chapter!! I found the link while on twitter and decided to read during my lunch break. I was dissapointed when I finished because I wanted MORE! Your decision to be “real” to your readers is hugh and refreshing. I am ordering my copy and if I WIN, I can pass along to others. Be blessed!

    Comment by Deborah Winters — September 30, 2011 @ 1:14 pm

  230. Pastor Greg,

    You are such a great communicator. I’m so glad to be a part of Seacoast and have the opportunity to hear you preach every Sunday. Congratulations.

    Comment by Clayton — October 2, 2011 @ 8:57 am

  231. A MUST read for everyone! I picked up your book Sunday following Worship and just finished it. You made me laugh, you made me cry (being a firefighter myself) but most important you really helped me think more in depth about my quest to follow Christ the best I can. It would appear that I have some work to do. Thanks for keeping it real.

    Comment by Wayne Lake — October 4, 2011 @ 12:33 am

  232. Atlanta trumps Charlotte for travel purgatory LOL!
    Signed unoffended GA resident transplanted to TX

    Comment by Blanca Irons — October 4, 2011 @ 8:55 pm

  233. ….Pastor Greg…..I just finished reading the glimpse into the new book you have written. You managed to do now what you have always done with me—-draw me in and let me know that the thoughts and feelings I have are okay. Teaching me to listen and look for opportunities instead of condemning myself for not being a better Christian. I can’t tell you how many times I have thought of your stories and life lessons and chose in those very moments to be inspired instead of defeated. You continue to be a blessing in my life. Just wanted you to know. Can’t wait to purchase your book and share it with several folks I know who are “sitting on the fence”…

    Comment by Rhonda Dean — October 23, 2011 @ 9:19 am

  234. Dear Pastor Greg Surratt,
    You are a good story teller. Looking at what you wrote, I felt a little uncomfortable with these two sections:
    “God’s in control. It’s his job to figure that stuff out. I guess my job is to keep my attitude right and just follow his lead.”
    “Cool idea”, I thought. “Sounds like something Jesus would say (if he were here today, occupying an oversized body in a very small plane, sitting next to a whiny pastor).”

    ->The metaphor used here might be confusing to a person who is not familiar with the Bible. For example:
    1. By the words “God’s in control” the reader might think Jesus is not one with the Father (John 10:30) This could contribute to contribute to ambiguity about the nature of the trinity.
    2.By the words “It’s his job to figure that stuff out” the reader might think that Jesus didn’t know why He went to the cross!!!

    Sincerely yours,
    Scott Phillips

    Comment by Scott Phillips — November 24, 2011 @ 4:05 am

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  236. Can’t wait to read the rest of the story. I love how God works with such surprise and grace.

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